I like a boy....I know i don't actually like him...its infatuation and I know it....WHAT TO DO???? everything about him lurs me in...I love fooling around with him!
Girl >< Flings are the hardest things to defend. If it is a fling, I suppose, enjoy it. If you all spend a lot time with him, chemicals are going to be exchanged, and you'll probably think you're in love with him.
Keep that in mind, and keep the priorities straight. That's all I can say right now. Remind yourself that it's not a committed thing, and it's quite temporary.
^^ Enjoy the rainy weekend that's coming upon us!! ^^
So you feel guilty for the fling then? Well, to take away from it, just make sure he knows it's nothing permanent. Don't feel bad, you're human, and we fall back into this sort of behaviour faster than you'd think.
he knows its not permanent....which is what i like so much! we both know that this is nothing...we r friends and we talk and hang out but also fool around. i dont feel guilty about the fling which is what i hate...like am i a really bad person...like i'm a huge slut cuz i fool around with my friend and feel comfortable. i just like the freedom i feel in my life n i guess i just like the party lifestyle now.
Oh girl, no no, you're not. As long as you both know what it is, then no hard feelings. Don't feel bad, it's just a temp thing. You're human, and need a hug ^^ at times :) But, you are at risk of ruining a friendship forever. That's probably what's eating you a bit :(
we are friends but not that close. he recently came out of a serious relationship as well and well we both like partying so we all go and well he's almost always my ride to anywhere. he is a really fun person and evryone loves having him around, but i like it a little more than others :(
Girl >< Flings are the hardest things to defend. If it is a fling, I suppose, enjoy it. If you all spend a lot time with him, chemicals are going to be exchanged, and you'll probably think you're in love with him.
ReplyDeleteKeep that in mind, and keep the priorities straight. That's all I can say right now. Remind yourself that it's not a committed thing, and it's quite temporary.
^^ Enjoy the rainy weekend that's coming upon us!! ^^
i no its not permanent....don't want any committment. i feel so bad that i feel this way!!
ReplyDeleteSo you feel guilty for the fling then? Well, to take away from it, just make sure he knows it's nothing permanent. Don't feel bad, you're human, and we fall back into this sort of behaviour faster than you'd think.
ReplyDeletehe knows its not permanent....which is what i like so much! we both know that this is nothing...we r friends and we talk and hang out but also fool around. i dont feel guilty about the fling which is what i hate...like am i a really bad person...like i'm a huge slut cuz i fool around with my friend and feel comfortable. i just like the freedom i feel in my life n i guess i just like the party lifestyle now.
ReplyDeleteOh girl, no no, you're not. As long as you both know what it is, then no hard feelings. Don't feel bad, it's just a temp thing. You're human, and need a hug ^^ at times :) But, you are at risk of ruining a friendship forever. That's probably what's eating you a bit :(
ReplyDeletewe are friends but not that close. he recently came out of a serious relationship as well and well we both like partying so we all go and well he's almost always my ride to anywhere. he is a really fun person and evryone loves having him around, but i like it a little more than others :(
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